Teenage friend being pressured into sex

Teenage friend being pressured into sex

My cousin (not putting his name here for privacy reasons) is a really good looking kid and has a lot of girls who want to date him. My fourteen-year-old self was a bit envious until I found out that every single girl that's interested in him is really interested in 'getting sex over with' with him. What should we do to help convince him that this is a special experience that should at the very least be shared with someone he loves (his parents aren't focused on waiting until marriage)?

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jonsurfs Mar. 15, 2014, 7:51 AM | In Children & Teens | Replies (4)

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shy_lezi's picture

Tell him that, he should wait to have sex. After they get what they want they just might leave. Having sex is never safe that's why many say wait till your married cause if she gets pregnant their married and have nothing to worry about, but your just a teenager and you have a lot going for yourself and having kids is a lot of work, money and time.

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shy_lezi's picture

Tell him that, he should wait to have sex. After they get what they want they just might leave. Having sex is never safe that's why many say wait till your married cause if she gets pregnant their married and have nothing to worry about, but your just a teenager and you have a lot going for yourself and having kids is a lot of work, money and time.

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sankofainfinity's picture

Too often we make a sincere judgement about circumstances and conditions, and most of the time those judgments or opinions are created out of our own stories and experiences that we are facing in life.
I understand completely where you as a friend may be concerned,however, as friend it is noble to offer good advice without being attached to the out come of the advice given. As a friend remain non judgmental of his decisions, allow him to make his own choices and love him unconditionally.

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Sai Prasad's picture

It is not good to have sex at this age. Sex is a indeed a special experience but it should be done at a proper age. Sex can & should be done after marriage. Do not be in a hurry, you may end up feeling guilty. So, wait for some more time until you reach a Age.

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