66: A Salute to the Mothers of Freedom

66: A Salute to the Mothers of Freedom

From Chicken Soup for the Soul: My Amazing Mom

A Salute to the Mothers of Freedom

A hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles.

~Christopher Reeve

My mother was a military wife. She moved our family twenty-two times in thirty-one years, over three continents, through three wars. Dad was the one who wore the uniform; Mom was the one who wore the brave smile. She served her country every bit as much as her husband did, and she did so with no hesitation, no complaints, and no regret. Mom was the wife of a warrior. She kept the home fires burning while Dad put his life on the line to protect his family and country.

I realize now that Mom put her life on the line, too. She was just twenty-two years old when she boarded a ship in San Francisco and spent the next twenty-one days horribly seasick sailing to the Philippines to join my father. She stayed up on deck much of the time, carrying her nine-month-old baby (me) in her arms, trying desperately to calm her queasy stomach. Over the years, she always said how grateful she was for the kindness of sailors and strangers who helped care for me during her miserable voyage across the Pacific.

Just a few months after we arrived in the Philippines, the Korean War broke out. Dad was sent to Japan, leaving his young family behind. Mom would sometimes stand on the front porch of our house on base with her toddler on her hip and a gun in her other hand. She could hear the Hukbalahap insurgents fighting just a mile up the road, and at night she could see the flashes of gunfire in the nearby mountains. It would be six long months before she was allowed to join my father in Japan.

It couldn’t have been easy for a young mother to be alone with her baby in a foreign country, with a civil war nearby. But when my mother tells the story now, she always makes it sound like a great adventure rather than a terrifying war zone. That’s Mom—always putting a positive spin on things.

A few years later, after short stints in Montana, Texas, Los Angeles, and Sacramento, we were transferred to Virginia for six months where Dad attended the Armed Forces Staff College in Norfolk.

In 1959, we shipped out to Germany, where we had our longest tour of duty—four and a half years—during which we moved three times. Dad often joked that just when Mom got a place fixed up the way she liked it, we had to move again. Mom always laughed, but I’m not sure she really thought it was funny.

We were stationed in West Germany when the Cold War began. The Berlin Wall went up and so did the tension in the air—even we kids could feel it. We never knew if war was going to break out and our dads would be called to fight. Everyone lived in a constant state of alert, wondering and waiting to see if families would have to be evacuated back to the States. My parents never talked about their fear of a potential World War III, but kids are intuitive and smart—we could sense that something ominous was looming.

My high-school years were spent in Illinois, followed by our second tour of duty in Germany. Then Dad was off to War College again, this time in Montgomery, Alabama. From there, it was north to Dover, Delaware, for a couple years, then south to Puerto Rico. Next was Thailand for Dad, while Mom remained stateside in San Diego so my brother Roger could finish high school.

And so it went over the years—from base to base, state to state, country to country—my mom hauling her kids and boxes of belongings (and sometimes a cat or dog) from one assignment to the next. She was a military mom, and that’s just what they do—get their marching orders and report for duty.

Every day, month after month, year in and year out, in wartime and in peacetime, millions of American women serve their country with honor. They provide support to their military husbands, while raising their children in the shadow of the fortress. These women often do long stints as single moms, while their husbands are deployed overseas for extended periods—months, even years.

There are no medals for bravery awarded to the wives of warriors, but there should be. These remarkable women deserve their own “Mother of Freedom” medal.

On Mother’s Day this year, remember the military moms. Seek them out in your neighborhood, workplace, church and local school. They are the unsung heroes—the patriot moms who serve our country with selfless love and loyalty. Salute them. Thank them. Hug them. Honor them. They are the Mothers of Freedom.

~BJ Gallagher

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