Angela’s Word

Angela’s Word

From Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul

Angela’s Word

When Angela was very young,

Age two or three or so,

Her mother and her father

Taught her never to say NO.

They taught her that she must agree

With everything they said,

And if she didn’t, she was spanked

And sent upstairs to bed.

So Angela grew up to be

A most agreeable child;

She was never angry

And she was never wild;

She always shared, she always cared,

She never picked a fight,

And no matter what her parents said,

She thought that they were right.

Angela the Angel did very well in school

And, as you might imagine, she followed every rule;

Her teachers said she was so well-bred,

So quiet and so good,

But how Angela felt inside

They never understood.

Angela had lots of friends

Who liked her for her smile;

They knew she was the kind of gal

Who’d go the extra mile;

And even when she had a cold

And really needed rest,

When someone asked her if she’d help

She always answered Yes.

When Angela was thirty-three, she was a lawyer’s wife.

She had a home and family, and a nice suburban life.

She had a little girl of four

And a little boy of nine,

And if someone asked her how she felt

She always answered, “Fine.”

But one cold night near Christmastime

When her family was in bed,

She lay awake as awful thoughts went spinning through her head;

She didn’t know why, and she didn’t know how,

But she wanted her life to end;

So she begged Whoever put her here

To take her back again.

And then she heard, from deep inside,

A voice that was soft and low;

It only said a single word

And the word it said was...NO.

From that moment on, Angela knew

Exactly what she had to do.

Her life depended on that word,

So this is what her loved ones heard:

NO, I just don’t want to;

NO, I don’t agree;

NO, that’s yours to handle;

NO, that’s wrong for me;

NO, I wanted something else;

NO, that hurt a lot!

NO, I’m tired, and NO, I’m busy,

And NO, I’d rather not!

Well, her family found it shocking,

Her friends reacted with surprise;

But Angela was different, you could see it in her eyes;

For they’ve held no meek submission

Since that night three years ago

When Angela the Angel

Got permission to say NO.

Today Angela’s a person first, then a mother and a wife.

She knows where she begins and ends,

She has a separate life.

She has talents and ambitions,

She has feelings, needs and goals.

She has money in the bank and

An opinion at the polls.

And to her boy and girl she says,

“It’s nice when we agree;

But if you can’t say NO, you’ll never grow

To be all you’re meant to be.

Because I know I’m sometimes wrong

And because I love you so,

You’ll always be my angels

Even when you tell me NO.”

Barbara K. Bassett

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